Argue for argue's sake...

Do you ever find yourself in a discussion with someone who seems to be intentionally misunderstanding in order to create friction/conflict?

Or, have you ever checked yourself to see if you are actively/intentionally/subconsciously misunderstanding in order to try to make your point or defend a position?

I wonder if, sometimes, we are confusing “open discussion” with deliberate instigation and conflict…

Just a thought. I wondered if anybody takes the time to reflect on whether they seek the conflict or the resolution…

I am guilty of this too, so I am not casting aspersions without looking into the mirror first.